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jef |  | |  | |
I have been tried to forget something for a while. But I still could not do it. Maybe that is something I wont forget in my whole life. We all just have life once. Ring, I still miss you. I think that is fine. It is you to let me be me.
I donot believe heaven or hell. But I do believe we are going to the same destination. We all gonna be there. I am fine now, same as chris and parents. After everything happened, I do know what is the most important in our life. Hopefully, it is not too later. Sometime, I do think I did not treat you good enough. But as you known, I had been grown up as a man from a young boy with you together.
Chris is totally same as you not even the looking but aslo charactor. It makes me feel well but sad. I will try my best to give her a happy and healthy life. Sometime, I feel you are watching me everyday, everynight. Keep watching me. As I told you before, I will keep the promise for my whole life.
Today is your 30 birthday, I am 30 too. I dont want to say something like if nothing happened. I dont know how long I gonna live. maybe 60, or 70. But I know I gonna try to be fine until that day. Do what I supposed to do.
I dont want to write this, but until midnight I still could not sleep. I just pretend to talking with you but you wont hear this. I did not cry for a while, that is the way life it. You wont be first, and I wont be the last. Same as others.
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best wishes to you | | | | |
please keep watching and praying for your family and friends.
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yueying | | | | |
上个月终于去了宁波, 也见到了小若池. 她是非常招
人疼的小孩,笑起来还有小酒窝儿.Jef是个好爸爸.小
若池一定会长得健康,快乐,就像你一样.
今天是你的生日. Happy birthday, girl.
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Dou Dou & Fan | | | | |
蜗牛,
在这个特殊的日子里面,我们为你点上了蜡烛,祝你生日快乐!!!
终于我们结婚了,希望和你一起分享我们的快乐,相信你在那边一定会露出灿烂的笑脸.
保佑你的父母,Jeff & Chris!
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teeth | | | | |
生日快乐！终于我们都满了30岁。不论你在哪里，都希望你过得很好不孤单。
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Sunday | | | | |
Everyone has an idea of heaven, as do most religions. But what’s happening in heaven? Ring, I want to tell you this novel I read in the summer about afterlife. In the story, heaven is not a lush Garden of Eden, but a place where your earthly life is explained to you by five people who were in it. These people may have been loved ones or distant strangers. Yet each of them changed your path forever.
“All endings are also beginnings. We just don’t know it at the time…”
The story starts like this, and I learn that what happens on earth is only the beginning. Time is not what we think it is; dying is not the end of everything. In this world, all lives intersect, each person is in our life for a reason; strangers are just family we have yet to come to know… Although it’s only a guess and a wish, the story explores the unexpected connections of our lives, and the idea that heaven is more than a place, it's an answer.
It's impossible to read this book and not wonder who your own five people would be and what answers they would have for your life. Ring, if this is what heaven is all about, I hope one day you will find the answers to your life, and we do too!
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阿土 | | | | |
万圣节到了，是你的生日。就象somewhere所说的，以前不信很多东西，现在将信将疑。
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somewhere | | | | |
Ring, 明天是你的生日，祝你生日快乐！这段时间毕业，找工作，没有常来看你，但是心里却没有忘记。
有些事从前我是从来不信的，但自从你走了之后，有些时候听到一些说法，又觉得好像是真的。好多事还是不知道的好，生活会简单快乐很多，对你对我都是这样。
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H.C.L | | | | |
又一年哪，我想很多人心里還是有那種說不出口的心痛。過去的日子，我總算都能過了。
昨天跟一位好朋友談起你，我還記得去年我們買了韓國蛋糕在你家一起過31號。
我只想每個朋友都能過的好，能過的更有意義。
Ring,希望你也是。
繼續保護你的家人。
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LangZhongKe Ren Man Li |  | | | |
阳历10月31日是Lin的三十岁的生日。记得是在吉林市你奶奶家生你的，你出生是在吉林市的铁路医院，因为你的二姑是医院药房的药剂师，是她帮助联系好的。按照预产期好象还提前了两三天，去医院的前天夜里先破了羊水，我自己也不知道，当早晨醒来，才知道。当时你爸爸还在上班，没有在我身边。是你姑姑陪我去的医院，中午，因为听到别人说生孩子是需要力气的，当时我把家里送来的满满一大饭盒的饭菜统统吃了。为了能顺利地生产。我旁边的待产的几个产妇，都有自己的丈夫陪伴，独我自个，说实在心理充满了恐惧，也不知你什么时候能出来，只是阵阵疼痛。这样从上午待到下午四点多，我才进入产房，天已经昏暗，阴沉，并下着鹅毛大雪。记得，医生还给我打了催生针，生你的时候，那个痛，真可以说地下有个缝就想钻下去。但妈妈仍是一声不吭，接生的医生直夸妈妈：真勇敢、好坚强。与医生配合，自然分娩生出了你。我心里在想不知是男是女，孩子怎样？因为，没有马上听到你的哭声。过了一会。才听到你的哭，医生说：很好的女孩，7斤重。心里的石头才落地，因为你是健康的。但说心里话，内心有一点遗憾：要是生一个男孩就更好了。此想法有二个原因：一是听说生男孩可以带走妈妈的病，妈妈身体不是很好。二是当时我认为男孩可以支撑家庭。这个想法，当你长大后曾经与你说过，后来，你就要说妈妈，不喜欢你，喜欢男孩。看你是多么要父母独爱你啊。这一直到你生了CHRIS,在你与妈妈谈起你生了CHRIS，虽然也高兴，但内心深处也有生个男孩更好的想法。这时，妈妈就知道你理解了妈妈。所以，生育后自己当了母亲，就能理解母亲的心。女儿亲啊。
可是，当你三十岁时，你在何处？父母只以此文字表示对你的追思。愿你在天国生日愉快。Happy Brithday !
your parents 28/10
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