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LangZhongke RenManLi		Email 

我们是LIN的爸、妈，於8月16日从美国回国后，回到宁波自己的家中，一直在想LIN留在了美国，她把自己的青春和美丽留给了JEFF、她的女儿CHRIS，所有认识及不认识的在美国留学和生活的年轻人。她和青春永在。我们从此也有了一个永远不老的女儿。
今天，我们有机会上网亲眼看到她的朋友对她的追思，热泪禁不住地往下流，她就象白玉无暇、彩霞灿烂，在众多年轻心灵的映照下，更加绚丽夺目。我们深深被感动了。
LIN走了，她给了大家一个思考：生命原来是这样的美好。我们活着的人，应该怎样过好人生。
大家相处、生活在一起相互映照，使原本并不顺意的生活有了它应有的光辉。
我们要坚强地活着。也希望JEFF有好的新生活。我们会尽到父母的责任，对CHRIS及与此相关的责任，我们尽量做得好些。LIN是非常、非常爱她的女儿的，总说：她是多么地、多么可爱。我想起LIN讲过的一句话：不是因为要靠她才生她，是因为我们爱她才生她。LIN现在不可能亲自养育她了，CHRIS现在由爷爷、奶奶和姑姑带着。年纪大的大，年纪轻的又有病。我们还在上班。因为，LIN的离开，留下的好大的责任。但愿我们能理解LIN ，让她在天堂完成上帝给她的任务。
26 AUG 2004
August 25 2004 (194) e


Ray		Email 

事情已经发生了, 就请节哀, 自己好好的过下去就是对逝者最好的思念.

I just wanna talk about one thing, it's very important for your financial situation. Has anyone talked to you about Survivor Benefits from Social Security? Your wife worked for a few years, which qualifies you and your young child for survivor benefits. It doesn't matter if you or your child is american citizen or not. As long as she paid social securtiy tax while she worked, you are in for the benefits. Let me give you some numbers to let you have some idea. if your wife's average monthly earning is $2200 for the past two years, you and your child is entiled to $1588 every month. If she earned $3000, your family will get $1972/month. Now you see this is huge number. If you remarries later, you will lose your part of benefit and your child will still get half of that benefit before she turns 16. Case by case, your family's benefit is not exactly the same number as i provided above. But for sure you will get some.

Now, what you have to do is, gather all the evidences for your wife salary history. Say, W2 form, tax files, or even ask for her employee to provide related information. At the same time, you need to call 1-800-772-1213 to find your local social security office and make an appointment. You need to go in, make a death claim and provide evidence in order to calculate her average monthly earnings. The website is www.ssa.gov. You can check related information too.

So, go aheard, and good luck. You can email me if you have any other question. I will try my best to answer. Also, if there's good result from social security, keep us posted, we will be happy for you.


August 25 2004 (193) e


路人		 

在人生转弯后，忘掉过去，接受现实，幸福就在眼前……
August 24 2004 (192) e


路人		 

JEFF，我一直在关注这个网站和你的日记，不过我建议你看个电影“新泽西爱未眠”（JERSEY GIRL)
http://www.xdvod.com/movie/5339.html
你总需要过新的日子，对不？就当自己第2次人生的开始，一直沉醉在怀念MMBB的日子，自己心情也很低落的，支持你去大喝大吃一顿，大哭之后，开始新的生活好吗？让所有爱你，爱RING,CHRIS的人为你骄傲。
August 24 2004 (191) e


Zou Chun Lei		 

Yu Shi,
I am in deep sorrow all these days. Life is too tough for you and for Chris. It is unfair!
Like what you said, be strong and stand up for Chris, for your parents and for Lang Lin's parents.
You are not alone. All the friends are here for you.
Lets keep her in our mind forever and overcome the hardtime and live to our future together.
Will talk to later.
Zou in College Station.
August 23 2004 (190) e


someone		 

Jeff: you know what? it's not only you, but me too want to get drunk a lot of times since that day....

we drink, we cry, we laugh, we embrace each other....
August 23 2004 (189) e


zoin		Email 

Yushi,

I feel so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can help.

Zhiyu
August 23 2004 (188) e


jef		 

Gonna move to new apt next week. Everything will be ok. Donot worry. Chris seems know something.
I am gettting better. Want to be drunk, at least once. But it is just tough to get drunk.
August 23 2004 (187) e


AMY		 

GOD BLESS RING

TAKE CARE! JEFF
August 22 2004 (186) e


Passer-by		 

I have the same feelings.

Everyday I come to miumiubebe's website to take a look. Although we could do nothing with the cruel fate, although she left us so abruptly, she is alive in our heart forever.

There are thousands of unwillingness, nevertheless, it is hard to escape from it.

Just hope Jeff can be out of the sadness and start a new life. Anyways, the life is expanded, cuz we still have Chris. Pretty sure, we can find her elegance, kindess and smartness in Chris years later.

Be strong, and cherish life.

I think you can do it, Jeff.


August 22 2004 (185) e



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